Titanium sulphuricum [Titan-s]:

-Jan Scholten

Titanium sulphuricum is a new remedy.

Concepts

Titanium Sulphuricum

Beginning Love

Uncertain Marriage Partner

Indecisive Egotism

Half Jealousy

Official Joy Satisfaction

Harmony Aesthetic

Clothes

Lazy

Ugly

Theorising

Group analysis

Starting a relationship.

Uncertain whether to start a real relationship.

Fear they will not be able to handle the relationship.

Half hearted within the relationship.

Indecisive about clothes.

Feeling they have to initiate the fun.

Delaying out of fear of being jealous.

Picture of Titanium sulphuricum

Essence: uncertain whether to start a real relationship.

Starting a relationship

Their basic feeling is that they should really make a start, make a commitment in the relationship. They are about to choose whether to get married or not, but they can't make up their mind.

Uncertainty whether to really start the relationship They can't make up their mind because they are not sure what marriage will bring them and whether they will be able to handle it. Their uncertainty can paralyse all actions, so that they tend to give up before they have started. They no longer make an effort to get a partner. They might even neglect themselves, walking around unwashed and in shabby clothes. They do want a partner, because they feel life is very empty without one. But they don't know what to do to get one and keep one and all this worrying and thinking about it drives them mad.

Fear they will not be able to handle a relationship

They feel totally unprepared for marriage, and they have no idea what lies in store for them. They think they are bound to make mistakes because they have never had a relationship before. Going out with a boy- or girlfriend had always been purely on a no ties basis, but this time it might be the real thing. Will they know what to do? Will they get jealous? Will they have fights? There are no end of problems they manage to create in their mind. The fear gets particularly out of hand when it is their partner who is proposing marriage. Suddenly all their anxieties come flooding in at once and they decline rather than give it a chance.

Delaying out of fear of getting jealous

Their indecision is based on fear of failure. They can get into a panic if the other person puts them under pressure to make up their mind. They want to delay as long as they can, because they feel they are not ready. And if they decide and it turns out to be the wrong choice they will regret it later.

A half hearted relationship

And so they tend to be rather half hearted in their relationships. They may have a partner but live on their own, or any other variety of a LAT relationship (Living Apart Together).

Or they might start a relationship with a married man.

Checking their feelings time and again

They like their relationship to be really happy, so they want to make sure they are doing the best they can. This makes them check their own behaviour all the time. Have I been kind enough today? Do I really love her enough? Was there anything in my behaviour that wasn't very nice? etc. It can all go a bit too far.

Checking their partners feelings time and again

Or they may direct their attention to their partner and check whether he or she really loves them enough. Is there enough love in our marriage/ Do you really love me? They can get very jealous if they get the feeling that their partner is a bit half hearted about it all.

Feeling they have to initiate the fun

Another variation on this theme is the feeling that they are always the ones who have to start the fun. They are the ones who must bring happiness into the life of their partner, while the partner just waits for it to happen. But they hesitate to start because they are not sure whether their kindness is real. Perhaps they have some other not so nice feelings inside too and they don't want to do things by halves. They had better wait until they are sure their love is 100 percent real.

Indecisive about clothes

Another expression of the theme is in the area of clothes and beauty. They like to be well dressed and look beautiful. And they are fine as far as casual clothes are concerned. But as soon as they have to choose something very smart they start to doubt whether they have real taste. At official occasions they wonder whether they have chosen the right suit or the right dress. Is this really suitable for the occasion? Rather than go through this doubt they prefer not to go to those official kinds of occasions anymore.

Expressions

Fears: failure, criticism, opposition, observed, anticipation, exams, job interview, heights, poverty, ugliness, dirt.

Dreams: futile efforts, paralysis, marriage, nightmares (<) lying on back. Mood: hurried, impatient, gloomy, indifferent. Causes: loss of loved ones, friends or relations, insults, humiliation, shame. Generals Locality: left. Weather: sensitive to both cold and heat, (<) heat, (>) outside (2); hot flushes.

Perspiration: easy, (<) exertion, stinking. Time: (<) 5 and 7 am Desires: fruit (2), apples, pears, kiwi, grapes, oranges, sweet (3), alcohol, fat, fried, spices, sour, cold drinks. Aversion: sour, milk, egg, bread. Food: (<) oranges, alcohol. Sleep: needs much; on right side, somnambulism; (<) lying in late. Physical: (<) reading, bright lights; (<) bathing. Complaints Discharges creamy, yellow, smelling of rotten eggs. Burning (3) pains. Full, heavy, pulsating feelings. Cancer. Paralysis. Migraines with glittering and spots before eyes, vertical hemiopia (!). Headache starting from neck, with nausea, vertigo, fainting, dry mouth, numb and trembling hands, diarrhoea and irritability. Vertigo, unsteady feeling in legs, falling forwards, fainting, (<) closing eyes. Eye complaints: difficulty reading or studying, letters tremble, spots before eyes, shimmering, half sided blindness, (<) bright lights, (<) eye strain. Objects appear small and far away. Colds. Dry mouth. Heart and vascular diseases. varicose veins, heavy legs. Haemorrhages and haematomas. Anaemia (3). Stomach problems. Diabetes. Diarrhoea. Kidneys. Brights disease. Skin problems, eczema, lupus, infections with yellow pus. DD: Silicium series, Ferrum series, Stage 2, 4 and 16, Lithiums, Malus, Tellurium. Case A 44 year old woman suffers from migraines. They start with flashes of light which can make her panic. Then the pain starts in her neck, radiating to the left side and settling above her left eye. She loses the left side of her field of vision. The pains are pressing and accompanied by nausea, sometimes with vomiting, and profuse perspiration. The pain is (<) from reflected sunlight, flashing lights, stress at work, before menses, (<) 3 pm, sleeping late; (>) wearing sunglasses The migraines started 10 years ago. She had a boyfriend and they were very much in love. He wanted to get married,but she didnt because she felt herself too inexperienced and she was afraid of sex. She felt she wasn't ready for marriage. Many years later her friend married someone else and then she suddenly regretted that she had let the opportunity slip by. Some time later she met him again and they started to have an affair because they still loved each other. She wants to marry him, but now he doesnt want to because he doesnt want to leave his children. Now she can't decide whether to carry on with this relationship or not.

She is a perfectionist, wants to do everything well and hates it when other people do things by halves. She needs to have a sense of security: she is not the type who will change her job on her own accord, for instance. She is quiet and reserved, and has never told anyone about her boyfriend. She gets on well with other people, is not easily upset, but when she is upset she is quite radical in her decisions.

She was brought up with little freedom, as her parents were narrow minded and kept an eye on her all the time. They used to tease and ridicule her, especially if she had been out: Who is your boyfriend then? They would make funny faces about it and although they didnt mean to be nasty she always felt extremely embarrassed.

She is afraid of heights, fainting, crowded streets and walking to the front in church.

She also has tennis elbow in her left arm and some vaginal discharge.

Generals

Weather: too hot or too cold, (>) outside, (>) mountains.

Perspiration: none.

Time: (<) 3 pm. Desires: fruit, apples, cheese, meat. Aversion: onions, garlic, sour. Food: (<) alcohol: head feels hot. menses: profuse, myoma. Sleep: awake around 4 am (<) thinking about work, (<) lying in late. Analysis The vertical hemiopia reminds us of Titanium or Lithium. The incident that took place around the start of the migraines had to do with her relationship, which points to Sulphuricum. What was happening in this relationship? The relationship was fine until the time when she had to make a commitment. The official start, the question of marriage, was what made her feel so indecisive. She didnt dare to commit herself in case she couldn't handle it. Later on she started a relationship with the same person, but this time it was in secret, only half and half. The uncertainty, the delay, the indecision and the half heartedness point to stage 4, to Titanium. So when we join the two themes together we get Titanium sulphuricum. Other Titanium symptoms: (>) fruit, (>) apples, hemiopia, flashing lights, migraines, (<) bright light, (>) outside. Sulphuricum symptoms: easily heated, (<) lying in late, (>) fruit, she was teased about boyfriends in childhood.

Reaction

One month after Titanium sulphuricum 1M she generally feels better, more energetic and more stable. She finds she doesnt think about the relationship problems so much; she has decided to carry on but feels less intense about it, and will wait and see what happens. If he chooses to be with her that's fine; if not, shell break it off. She has had no more migraines. In the course of the next 18 months she had 4 repeat doses of Titanium sulphuricum 1M.

Comments

  1. I am trying to seperate titanium sulphuricum from titanium metallicum, but I am finding it hard to tell the differense?
    Is there anyone who has any thought on this?

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